“I didn’t have very much to do this evening, so I thought I would touch up a few things.”
“Do you have to paint everything in sight?”
“I didn’t paint everything in sight. I painted a breadbox, an end table & that chair you’re sitting on.”
“I’ve just got to get that house in order. Are there any other antique dealers that we might visit today?”

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Anyone that knows Audley and me could totally imagine that these are conversations between us as we are working to put our new house in order.
{All four of our kids will attest to this.}
In fact I am positive we’ve actually had these conversations before… on more than one occasion.
In reality, these are lines from the extremely cheesy and comical 1965 Doris Day movie “Do Not Disturb”.
The subplot of the movie is Doris Day’s character trying to decorate the new home she and her husband have moved in after transferring with his new job.
{Sounds familiar, right?}
You would think after fourteen moves I would have the art of decorating and organizing a home nailed.
My reality is quite the opposite.
I’ve always managed to have two or three main living spaces mostly put together in our home, but the remainder of the house stays partially complete. For example, we didn’t have curtains in our living room of the house we just moved from until this past December (just before a large Christmas party we hosted); we found out we were moving early January. Our master bedroom wasn’t complete until we lived in the house for three years (and I was having major surgery that would have me confined to the bed for quite a while). I redecorated the kitchen three different times because I couldn’t find something that spoke to me without a massive overhaul that just wasn’t possible because we were leasing.
You get the picture.
I’m really bad at putting it all together without doubt in my mind, and extremely bad in finding a way to pull my eclectic style together.

Our antique dining room suite
I’m constantly saying, “I’ve just got to get that house in order” and then heading off to do something else.

I do have a paint project in the works… and I can’t unpack certain boxes until it’s completed.
Mainly because I don’t know what I want or doubt how to make it happen.
When we closed on our house several weeks back and moved in two and a half weeks ago, Audley suggested that I not waste any time and put our house in order; to do what I needed to do to make our new house a home without doubt or fear or procrastination.

Our new sofa from Ikea
So that’s what I’ve done. Staying within a budget we set, box by box, room by room, and shopping expedition by shopping expedition I’ve been slowly turning our new house into our new home. We are so close to the empty nest, things that I’ve not done because I didn’t think it was kid/family friendly, or didn’t want the kiddos to mess it up are no longer valid excuses.

Pillows… Plants… Color…
Colors for the walls were done the week before we moved in, we have curtains hanging in every room, big pieces of furniture arranged, and I think that I have a grasp on how to make my eclectic style work with our not quite empty nest.

Working on the mantle… Mixing it up with antique books
We shall see and hopefully in the coming weeks I will share a little of what Audley and I have pulled together. Until then I hope you enjoyed a few glimpses of what we’ve started on and will stop back by as we finish!
14 moves is a lot. No wonder you find it difficult to put everything together as I suspect each house is different and requires different nurturing.
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Hi Jen~
My goodness! So much to catch up with you on. A move…an engagement…a sixteen-year-old son. Who am I forgetting? Oh, yes, a daughter heading for college, perhaps already there.
Hope that you enjoy settling in and getting things just as you want them. I still remember your inspired entryway, which I surely have pinned somewhere.
All the best!
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