Easy Holiday Entertaining with a Grazing Table

Tis the season to entertain – whether it’s an open house, a cookie swap, or a family gathering, our homes can become quite busy during the holiday season. While I love to prepare a huge feast, teaching doesn’t allow a lot of spare time to prepare a big dinner. But, throughout my years of hosting events, I have discovered many ways to entertain beautifully, without exhausting yourself. One of my favorite ways is a buffet where your guests contribute a covered dish to accompany your menu, but I also enjoy serving food in the more casual, but beautiful style of a “grazing table”. 

While the term “grazing table” doesn’t sound so pretty, these tables laden with snacks and treats are so easy to assemble plus can be as elaborate or simple as you would like! It’s a great way to elevate your party. When I think of a grazing table, I often think of illustrated scenes from A Christmas Carol and the ghost of Christmas present where he is generally seen lounging around a table laden with food. While today’s economy doesn’t quite allow for that exhorbitant display, you get the picture of what’s in my mind.

So, what is a grazing table, and how do you set it up?

First, a grazing table is honestly nothing more than an elevated charcuterie board. It is more diverse and includes plenty of sweet to accompany the savory. With a grazing table you create a tablescape by creatively and artfully arranging meats, cheeses, crudites, fruits, vegetables, flowers, and dishes. It’s a relaxed and fun way to serve your guests without having to cook a full meal. It’s also casual enough guests can venture back and forth to grab a bite or two without over fixing a plate. A grazing table is perfect for nearly any event since they include a bite of something for anyone attending. These delectable tables work well with open houses, cocktail hour, viewing the big game, girls’ night in, or for a houseful of teenagers.

Second, have a table. Ok, so maybe that’s a bit cheeky, but you do need a serving station. You can use a buffet, a countertop, smaller end tables, or the entire kitchen or dining room table. Think outside the box for your set-up if you would like to leave your table free. You can even choose multiple locations for a set up and divide the sweets from the appetizers. There are many ways to lay out your spread, but for a semi-casual evening, I lay parchment or wax paper directly on my space and arrange a smallish centerpiece. You don’t really need a big centerpiece as you can include elements of the centerpiece around the table.

Centerpiece ideas for Christmas include, fresh greenery, cranberries, unscented candles, peppermint sticks or Christmas wrapped chocolates. Pomegranates, oranges, unshelled nuts, and apples make great centerpiece accessories as well. Tuck in a few fresh roses, ribbon and ornaments that match your home decor. The possibilities are endless, and you can carry the theme throughout your entire table.

My centerpiece on this table was nothing more than washed, fresh greenery arranged down the center of the table with ornaments, candy canes, votive candles, and pinecones tucked in. I set the dishes on top and in the greenery but didn’t let it overpower the food. Normally I would add some height to my table, but this more rustic themed table fit well in the location of the girls night. I love using candles throughout our home, but especially on tabletops, so unscented votives are a must have on my list.

Third, choosing food to fill the table depends on your guests. Are you hosting a cookie swap? Choose a combination of sweet and salty bites.

Hosting a caroling party? Turn your table into a huge hot chocolate and coffee bar. 

Inviting friends and family over for a tree trimming? Add foods that cover the various elements of a dinner party from appetizers to dessert. 

These tables are easy to adjust for a theme, age group, and budget. The one thing to remember is that you are keeping things simple. Stick to a combination of savory and sweet but choose bites that go well together. Also, think of your guests and their palettes. While plates are definitely required, silverware is not. 

You can arrange the food on wooden boards, directly on the table, or a combination of both. For this Girl’s Night In table I created, there were several elements for serving, which did leave dishes to be washed, but I used disposable plates and serving utensils which kept those dishes to a minimum. No host or hostess wants to be up late washing dishes after everyone goes home!

Finally, here are some easy ideas for a simple grazing table: Fresh fruit, nuts, pepperoni, salami (really any type of cured meat … uncured if you want to avoid unnecessary nitrates), small pickles, assorted cheeses, bread sticks, chocolate covered pretzels, cookies, crackers, chopped fresh veggies, caprese salad picks, and olives. To that add dips and mustards, and you’ve created a beautiful tablescape laden with colorful and tasty food. As long as you have a table filled with various flavors and textures, you can’t really go wrong.

Have you ever created a grazing table for an event? I would love to hear what all you included to serve your guests. 

Do you think you would put together a table for anything you have coming up? I would love to see and hear all about your ideas!

Thanksgiving Prep

Yikes!

We are just four days away from Thanksgiving! This month has flown by. Normally at this point of Thanksgiving week, my tree would be decked, and a flurry of baking would be taking place in the kitchen.

As I write tonight my tree is still packed up in the basement, Audley is working on a few lingering projects at home, and “Christmas Vacation” is playing in the background of my hotel room while I’m in Nashville for the Junior Beta Club Convention. My elementary students have had a great weekend and I love to see their enthusiasm for educational endeavors and our middle schoolers are arriving tonight, but oh how I wish it was another weekend than right before Thanksgiving!

I daresay a man who doesn’t have a clue about getting “holiday ready” planned it. HA!

As is tradition, we will spend our Thanksgiving Day at my parents’ house along with some of my children, my siblings, nieces and nephews. It is always such a big deal; something I look forward to each year, and such a special time. Since I am busy with Beta Club until Tuesday, planning and organizing my Thanksgiving plans has been of upmost importance to compensate for a lack of time. Audley and I purchased most of our holiday groceries a couple of weeks back, just leaving us the fresh items on our list. I’ll pick those up Tuesday as I head home.

As I mentioned, we’ll be at Dad and Momma’s for the holiday. We all pitch in dinner and start with a flurry of text messages around the last of October tossing around ideas and nailing down the menu. Our Thanksgiving recipes are rooted in American as well as family heritage, plus a few surprises. With a large family, we serve both turkey and ham. Momma always takes care of the ham, and I generally handle the turkey. My sisters, sister-in-law, Samantha, Madeline, and I also plan for an abundance of sides and desserts. No one leaves hungry and generally we don’t have to cook on Friday either.

Open-faced turkey sandwich with gravy anyone?

Everyone leads a pretty busy life these days, but the key to stress-free entertaining is organization and to plan ahead, especially when it comes to the Thanksgiving meal. With a little planning and prep everything will come together nicely for a big holiday gathering. I’m a list maker, so first I jotted down my contributions to the Thanksgiving feast. From this list it’s easy to make my grocery list, prioritizing when certain items are to be purchased. This year my contributions are as follows: turkey stuffed with citrus and fresh herbs, corn pudding, possibly oyster stuffing, cranberry relish, pumpkin pies, and bourbon pecan pie.

I don’t know about you, but any holiday having a timeline is a huge help for me. I begin light planning and prep at the beginning of November and have everything laid out in writing to get me through Thanksgiving. Some of the things included in my timeline is thawing time for the turkey (your own turkeys should be in the refrigerator by now), making the menu and grocery list, making sure you have proper cook’s tools to prepare everything, and details on when to begin preparing your foods.

Generally everything is written in my planner, but having something pinned to the refrigerator is a huge help as well. Here is a graphic I created that you could print off to print and hang for yourself.

Just click to download and print!

The joy of preparation and organization is the time it leaves for you to enjoy the company of your family! How do you organize your holiday dinners? Let me know if this little timeline is helpful for you.

Up next: my cranberry relish recipe. You’ll never open a can of cranberry jelly again!

Cheesy Pound Cake for Mother’s Day

After 5 1/2 weeks of many hours and lots of labor, our sweet new home is coming together into our forever dream.

Of course, when you have twenty-seven years of magazine articles in a notebook and Pinterest boards detailing home and garden plans it does come together rather quickly, much to Audley’s chagrin.

Even though we have been crazy busy around here, we have still managed to welcome spring and celebrate all the little things from Easter to birthdays and tomorrow, we will be hosting Mother’s Day here at our new home.

When deciding what I should prepare, I went way back into my archive of hand-written recipes that I began back in college and pulled out one of my favorites; a cheesy poundcake from Southern Living around 1994.

It’s probably one of my favorite pound cake recipes as well as one that is so versitle. With ingredients like sharp cheddar cheese, cream cheese, all the butter and real vanilla this pairs well with coffee, berries, a chocolate sauce, a lemon cream, or cranberries soaked in a sweet red wine.

My favorite way to enjoy this cake though, is still warm from the oven, with fresh plain strawberries and slightly sweetened homemade whipped cream. The flavors pair so well together and with all the sugar in the cake (it IS a pound cake after all), you don’t need to add any more.

So let’s gather some ingredients.

You’ll need 1 1/2 cups of butter, 1 8-ounce package of cream cheese, 3 cups of sugar, 6 large eggs, 3 cups all-purpose flour, salt, 2 cups finely shredded cheese (this recipe is SO much better if you shred it yourself. Trust me), and 1 Tablespoon high quality vanilla.

{I never said this recipe was healthy.}

While baking this recipe in a Bundt pan is perfectly fine and definitely less work in the kitchen, I used a flower cakelet pan from Williams Sonoma for my pound cakes just for aesthetics and a cuteness factor.

After baking, I trimmed the bottoms so that the cakes would set flat. That is Audley’s favorite part of baking, because he is a crust kinda guy. As I said my favorite way to enjoy this cake is with strawberries, so that is definitely the way we’ll be serving it up!

I’ll add the entire recipe in just a sec., but I would love to hear your Mother’s Day plans!

Check out this rich and scrumptious recipe below and have a fabulous weekend!

10 Things December Edition

It’s the most wonderful time of the year and I’m ready to savor every moment this season has to offer! I’ve got my bucket list made out and thought I would share a few ideas with you to add to your own list.

1. Visit a Christmas tree farm. If you want the freshest of live trees this is the best way to pick one that will last! Sip on cider, take some fun pictures and bring home a tree that’ll make a lovely centerpiece for the holidays. Thompson’s Tree Farm in Lawrenceville is a great place to check out if you are in the Atlanta area.

2. Donate to Toys for Tots. Sponsored by the Marine Corps, Toys for Tots strives to collect new toys and distribute to less fortunate children across the country. This is a huge undertaking and requires a lot of community support. Could you imagine if every family, that was able actually placed a toy in the bins all around the city, how many children’s holiday could be changed?

3. Make Christmas cookies. These Cream-Filled Cookies or traditional Sugar Cookies are perfect for friends and family alike. They’ll be a hit no matter where you serve them this season.

4. Pay for someone’s coffee. Nothing makes a person’s day brighter than to treat them with a cup of coffee. It’s been a stressful couple of years for A LOT of people and I promise this little act of kindness will go a long way.

5. Take a drive to look at Christmas lights around town. Put some Christmas music on the radio and head out to see all the twinkling lights your town has to offer. This has been a favorite tradition of mine since I was a little girl, and with social media access you can often find where the best diplays are before you head out.

6. Send out Christmas cards. Yes, it takes time to address, write a message and sign the card, but this is a tradition we all need to get on board with again! I love recalling memories we have shared with so many friends and family over the years as I write each message, and it’s the same as I open each card we receive as well. We’ve lived in six states, attended the same Bible camp for years, carry on friendships from college, and traveled on mission trips where we have created a lasting bond with many. Turn off your social media and get personal. One evening of a favorite Christmas movie and a box of cards goes a long way.

7. Speaking of movies, enjoy a Christmas movie marathon over the holidays. From 1954’s White Christmas to 2021’s A Boy Called Christmas there are plenty of movies for every mood!

8. Set up a hot chocolate bar for the family. I’m absolutely loving these adorable Jolly Good marshmallows from Two’s Company. I picked up my bag from the new Buc-ees up the road, but you can also find something similar at Williams-Sonoma.

9. Make a wreath. Simple or elaborate, it’s up to you, but grab some ribbon, a nutcracker and some sparkly floral picks and create your own welcoming wreath.

10. While Jesus was most likely born in the spring and not December 25th, Read the Gospel of Luke in the days leading up to Christmas as a reminder of why the birth of Jesus is so important to many of us who celebrate the Christmas season for more than Santa Claus. For many it’s the only time of the year they are open to hearing about Christ and I’m more than happy to oblige.

Have you put together a bucket list for you and your family this season? I would love to hear what you’ve added to yours!

Happy December!